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When we usually start a new relationship, it's because there is a mutual attraction. Sooner or later the midnight call get steamy and I think I'm falling in love turns to, I love u honey pie.

Then u can't stay off the phone. You just want to be with this heartthrob 24/7.

Till the 4 week, post coital blues. The calls become one sided. The I love u honey pie becomes Yeah, u too. 

Then, stupidly, u get married.

Then the real shit hits the fan. U become too clingy. Why do u only think/want sex all the time? 

The lover becomes the fighter. The kisses become punches. Truths become lies. U even lie to cover the lies.

Nah! Enough is Enough! It's time to shake things up. 

Stop thinking it's going to get better. It's not. Stop praying for change. It is not going to happen. No matter how many prayers u and the church offer, an arsehole will always be an arsehole. Wise up.

He/she will never, ever love u like that again. They are usually narcissistic, psychological, pathetic, pathological liars, that thrive on making people miserable. 

They usually are the nicest people, people meet. No one will believe you when you say how awful they really are. It's your fault. 

No its not!

No! It's not!

Enough is Enough.

You are worth so much more and I am going to make sure you get it.

Blessings

PB

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This is the blog for Purple Buddies, a page devoted to combating Domestic Violence.
Domestic Violence is a Cancer. One that is not recognised by any Cancer research institute. It is not funded and does not receive any donations. There are no special nights for fundraising and the Laws are not strong enough to stop the spread.

Purple Buddies need you. We need people to spread their stories. We need people to shout out that Domestic Violence is wrong and must stop. We offer support, training and advise on rehabilitation and legal advice. We want lawyers, politicians and concerned citizens to join in.

I am not an individual, I am a Purple Buddy.
Please join me. Thank you Sola